I remember
sitting in a cold and dusty basement, searching for the habits that
could change my life.
Being 21 years old,
I was ready to take my life to the next level, but I felt stuck for three
reasons: I lived at my parents' house, I had an $8-per-hour job, and I was
enrolled in an never-ending MBA program. Deep down inside, I knew I had to
escape. However, I wasn't going to run away from myself, which was
something I always did.
This time, I was
determined to make a change and I was deeply inspired to become successful, but
I didn't know what to do or where to start. However, I firmly believed that if
I changed my habits, my habits would change me. Instead of fooling around with
miscellaneous activities, like sports and television, I decided to take up
new habits, like reading books and giving speeches.
These habits led to
a succession of positive results. Professionally, I became more competent.
Personally, I became more confident. This realization that competence breeds
confidence was the pivotal point that changed my life. It enabled me
to reach the acme of success I now encounter, allowing me to create wealth and
inspiration for millions of people.
Moreover, it came
at a great sacrifice. These habits that I created were the anchors that made me
who I am today. Therefore, here are the 10 powerful habits that will make
you a millionaire:
1. Simplify Your Words
How well do you
spread your message? Millionaires know how to share their message in
simplest terms. They use their words with precision and possess deep meaning in
what they say. Personally, I peruse the dictionary every day, but I would
never attempt to use every word I know. By speaking pompously,
many people exterminate their opportunities. In
short, never drown people in the sea of verbosity.
To learn to speak
with ease, join your local Toastmasters club to brush up on your communication skills.
Unfortunately, too many people get lazy with their communication and subtly
conform to the habits of others. However, millionaires diligently work on how
to improve what they say and seamlessly find easier ways to say it,
whether it's verbally or written.
2. Abandon the Old
Before you are able
to face the new, you must relinquish the old. If you want a new car or
house, then bless the old one and search for the new. When you want to
achieve a positive mindset, you must get rid of the negative one first. To
abandon your negative habits, you must replace them with
positive ones.
I realized this
great habit one day as I was feasting on a couple cheap burgers at McDonald's.
With great disgust, I ventured out to find the finest steak houses in the
area to seek new and delectable experience with my meals. Instead of
indulging in $1 burgers several times a week, I was happier to splurge my money
on a robust steak once or twice per month.
We are what we repeatedly
do. Therefore, excellence is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
3. Daily Goal-Setting
Every day, I set my
goals on paper. This is an inspiring habit that I promise to keep for the
rest of my life. Whether you're writing your financial projections, planning
your weekly tasks, or scheming new ways to build your empire, you'll want to
procure a daily goal-setting habit that will give you momentum on a daily
basis.
When you set your
goals every day, it allows you to prioritize and keep "first things first." Prioritization
is doing first what matters most. Instead of pursuing $100 actions, this habit
will promote you to embody $1,000 activities. Once you accumulate
more profitable activities in your day, you'll add money to the bank, making
you a millionaire in the process.
4. Being Congruent
You must do
what you say you're going to do. There will be many times in your life where
you'll be asked to sacrifice your personal values to reach professional goals.
When this temptation occurs, don't do it. There's nothing more valuable than
remaining congruent in your personal and professional lives. It allows you to
mix "business with pleasure."
Strangely enough,
many people tell you that you can't mix business with
pleasure. However, this assertion is absurd and will only be preached by
incongruent people. When you're doing what you love, business is pleasure. When
you're living a life that is based on integrity, your reputation will grow,
enriching yourself and many others in the process. Never put your reputation in
jeopardy by failing to remain congruent with your highest values and
ideals.
5. Decision-Making
The more decisions
you make, the more successful you will be. While one person could make a
dozen decisions in a day, another one can make hundreds in a day. The person
who makes the most decisions will win, even if their decisions lead to failure.
Just imagine, if you were going the opposite way on a one-way street, you'd
learn to quickly make adjustments!
However, most
people are afraid to make crucial decisions because they are conquered by
fears, which leaves them paralyzed. Being paralyzed prevents them
from making decisions, thereby forcing them to forfeit
opportunities. Always make a decision, even if you don't know where it
will lead. Soon enough, you'll find the answers you need.
6. Asking Questions
Most people assume
that they know answers. Their assumptions actually hold them back from
knowing the truth. Truly, you want to ask questions to
gain clarity about the direction you are heading. The fact is that many
people don't ask any questions as they habitually guess their way
by creating answers for themselves.
To become a
millionaire, don't answer your questions, but question your answers.
When you need to know the facts, you must inquire, not just make
assumptions. Many people don't want to ask questions because it exposes them to
confront the reality of their circumstance, which may scare
them. Moreover, asking questions forces them into the laborious
task of thinking, which is why they fail to ask questions.
Judge a man by his
questions rather than his answers. -Voltaire
7. Become a Master
One time, a fine
pianist performed at a party for 50 rich women. After she was done, a
woman from the party said to the virtuoso, "I'd give anything to play as
you do." As the master pianist sipped her coffee in slow motion, she took
a brief pause and said, "Oh no you wouldn't." Soon, a great hush
filled the room as they were baffled in astonishment and massive
confusion.
She continued,
"You'd give anything to play as I do, except time. You
wouldn't sit and practice, hour after hour, day after day, year after
years." Then she flashed a warm smile while repositioning her coffee
cup. "Please understand, I'm not criticizing," she said.
"I'm just telling you that when you say you'd give anything to play as I
do, you don't really mean it. You really don't mean it at all."
Every
master was once a disaster. - T. Harv Eker
8. Embellish Your Appearance
Upgrading your
appearance is instrumental to becoming a millionaire. Avoiding bad habits
like drugs, tobacco, and excessive drinking of alcohol will always
give you a more confident expression. By exercising four to five times
per week, you are destined to become more physically attractive. You can
easily beautify yourself by making minor changes to your appearances.
I have seen older
men who apply mascara to their gray hairs. I know a woman who takes
regular naps and occasionally sleeps 12 hours straight to avoid baggy
eyes. Constantly embellish your appearance, even in the smallest
ways, like shaving or applying cosmetics. Soon
enough, you'll find more opportunities attracted to you. Looking like a
millionaire is a best way to becoming one!
9. Doing the Maximum
The only element of
success that you can control is your effort. Most people do
minimum work, but expect maximum results. Instead of shirking the
responsibilities of work, millionaires find better ways to achieve their goals.
They go the extra mile to leverage themselves through people and systems,
while using their efforts to optimize their talents.
Recently, we had
more than three feet of snow, which requires tremendous effort to remove.
My neighbor checked on me to see how I was doing. He was drenched in snow when
he asked, "Aren't you going to come out and shovel?" I told him,
"Nope, I hired someone to do it." When you maximize your
efforts by focusing on how you can utilize your talents, you will dramatically
increase your wealth.
People pretend not like
grapes when the vines are too high for them to reach. - Marguerite de Navarre
10. Obey the 'Rule of 500'
Early on in my
business, I had a great struggle obtaining clients. It wasn't until I ran into
the "Rule of 500" concept that changed my life. Basically, this
habit taught me that if I wanted to become a millionaire, I would have to
constantly reach out to a minimum of 500 people per month, either by
phone or email. Knowing that I would face a lot of rejection, I was still
willing to make it happen.
Thankfully, I found
that there are many ways to obtain a list of contacts. At first, you'll have to
search diligently for these people who need your talent the most. When you
grasp their attention with an email or phone call, you must move in with great
initiative to offer your product or service. Obviously, not everyone will
like you or what you offer, so be ready to face massive rejection. You'll be
lucky if you have a 5 percent conversion rate when reaching out!
Good habits
are as addictive as bad habits. Once you've adopted a good habit, keep gaining
new ones. An average person develops 6-10 new habits per year, which also means
that they are dropping 6-10 old habits! Regardless, think about your daily habits and how they affect you. And remember, you make your habits in the
beginning, then your habits make you!

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