Successful people think with strong minds. They prepare
themselves mentally every day so they are prepared to face the challenges in
their lives that may arise. These seven fearless ways of thinking, compiled
from Forbes, are ones you may want to consider implementing yourself:
1) Move On
Fearless people, successful people, are not afraid to move on
in life. They do not “waste time feeling
sorry for themselves,” because they know it is not productive to their end goal.
“They have learned to take responsibility
for their actions and outcomes, and have an inherent understanding of the fact
that frequently life is not fair.” At the end of the day, fair is a child’s
word. When people realize this, they stop dwelling on the past and bounce back
from mistakes faster. This allows them to be more successful in life because
they do not waste time being upset about things they cannot change. Instead,
they use that time to productively work on conquering new goals.
2) Keep Their
Power
“Mentally strong people
avoid giving others the power to make them feel inferior or bad.” Rather
than allowing the thoughts of the many different people they come across affect
their way of thinking, successful people realize that everybody has different
opinions and that not everybody’s opinions matter or should be taken
personally. They know they are “in
control of their actions and emotions. They know their strength is in their
ability to manage the way they respond.” Even when the chips are down and
the insults feel personal, successful people find a way to look ahead and
ignore the people tearing them down.
3) Accept Change
There is an old adage that claims the only things that are
certain in life are death and change. “Mentally
strong people embrace change and they welcome challenge.” In order to
change yourself, you have to challenge yourself. If you are not challenging
yourself, you are going to stay in the same spot for the rest of your life or
ultimately begin to slip backwards. Mentally strong people, fearless people,
successful people think in a way that will allow them to make changes in their
life and accept changes that come so that they can get stronger with each day.
“An environment of change and even
uncertainty can energize a mentally strong person and bring out their best.”
4) Take Calculated
Risks
“A mentally strong
person is willing to take calculated risks.” Successful people think that
risks sometimes bring out the best results in life. They aren’t careless, but
rather “weigh the risks and benefits
thoroughly, and will fully assess the potential downsides and even the
worst-case scenarios before they take action.” They don’t shy away from
risks, but they don’t plunge into ones without thinking them through first.
However, it is the risks in life that make life interesting and sometimes bring
out the most incredible results. Successful people are wiling to take this
chance when it makes sense to them.
5) Applaud
Others’ Successes
Jealousy and resentment are both emotions that can be
incredibly prohibiting to one’s success. “It
takes strength of character to feel genuine joy and excitement for other
people’s success. Mentally strong people have this ability.” You only get
what you work for in life. Dwelling on the idea of unfair successes will get
you nowhere. Successful people think, and they think correctly, that the
successes of other people are not inversely tied with their own failures. They
can recognize the difference between their own successes and the successes of
others and realize that even if there is a possible connection, the focus that
will provide the most beneficial outcome is for them to focus on their own
journeys and successes.
6) Remain
Resilient
“Every failure is a chance to improve.” Successful people
fail, too. The difference is that they get back up and keep fighting. No
successful person is where they are today because they just slipped through
life as casually as an afternoon breeze in the autumn. Every person in this
world who is truly successful has been tenacious and hard-working. “Mentally strong people are willing to fail
again and again, as long as the learning experience from every ’failure’ can
bring them closer to their ultimate goals.” Sometimes failure teaches you
more than a win ever could.
7) Earn Their
Wins
Successful people think in terms of earning potential. They
do not “feel the world owes them
anything. Particularly in the current economy, executives and employees at
every level are gaining the realization that the world does not owe them.”
In order to be successful, it is vital that you think with a strong mind and
work for your successes. They will never be handed to you on a silver platter.
You must earn them and even when you think you’ve earned them, realize that
sometimes you have to work four times as hard as you could have ever expected
to get somewhere. Yet, successful people think, and think correctly, that if
they work hard enough they will eventually earn the wins they want in life. The
world may not owe them anything, but the world is much more likely to give them
things if they work hard for them.


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